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Romantic Microwedding at The Mount (Lenox, MA)

Taylor and Sam’s romantic summer microwedding in the Berkshires was such a memorable day and introduced me to one of my favorite New England venues - The Mount.

 
The Mount is a European inspired wedding venue in the Berkshires.

Taylor and Sam’s summer microwedding in the Berkshires was such a memorable day and introduced me to one of my favorite venues - The Mount. This venue was one of the most unique, beautiful places that I’ve ever had the privilege of working at and it is now at the top of my list of my favorite New England venues (blog post on those to come!).

The Mount in Lenox, Massachusetts was once the home of celebrated author Edith Wharton. The historic estate was designed and built by Wharton in 1902.

The property includes over 50 acres of meticulously landscaped grounds and has lots of gorgeous options for ceremony and portrait spaces. Taylor and Sam chose to have their first look in the intimate Italian Garden, their ceremony in the Versailles-inspired French Garden, and their dinner in the linden tree-lined walkway between the two gardens known as the Lime Walk. They also used several rooms and spaces inside the house itself for getting ready and portraits.

My favorite part of their day was the intimate dinner they had at long tables surrounded by twinkly lights set up between the rows of trees in the Lime Walk (see below for photos of the details!). I photographed Taylor & Sam’s wedding day primarily with my digital cameras but was testing out my grandfather’s old Konica Minolta film camera for fun so I threw in a handful of film shots as well for them. See if you can spot them!

The Mount is a great option both for couples that are having smaller, intimate microweddings like Taylor and Sam’s and for those who are having a larger celebration with room for up to 250 guests. The space allows for so much flexibility! If you’re looking for a unique and historic wedding venue in a beautiful location like the Berkshires, I highly recommend that you check out The Mount!

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Taylor & Sam’s Wedding Vendors

photography: Kayla Rice Photography // venue name: The Mount, Edith Wharton's Home, Lenox, MA // planning/catering/bar: Mezze Events // florals: Carolyn Valenti Flowers // hair stylist: Good Vibes Beauty Co // makeup artist: Liz O’Malley Makeup

 
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Simone & Shawn's Intimate Wedding at the Four Seasons One Dalton

Simone and Shawn originally booked me for their Fall 2024 wedding at the beautiful Four Seasons One Dalton, but less than a month after booking I got an email from them telling me that plans had changed! The couple found out that they were expecting a baby so they decided to adjust their plans to have a much more intimate wedding with their closest family in May. 

 
 
 

Simone and Shawn originally booked me for their Fall 2024 wedding at the beautiful Four Seasons One Dalton, but less than a month after booking I got an email from them telling me that plans had changed! The couple found out that they were expecting a baby so they decided to adjust their plans to have a much more intimate wedding with their closest family in May 2024. Luckily, I was available for their new date! 

I got to know Simone and Shawn a bit better in March with an engagement session at their favorite neighborhood bar, park, and at their apartment. It’s really nice to be able to meet a couple in person before their wedding day so that we can get to know each other and have a “test run” for our wedding day portrait session. Typically I’ll meet couples through an engagement session, but a meetup can also be done at an in-person planning meeting, or a venue site visit.

Simone and Shawn were originally drawn to my work because of my documentary style. They wanted the photos from their more intimate wedding to feature candids of them with their close friends and family prominently.

On their wedding day, the couple got ready separately with family and friends, and then saw each other for the first time that day with a first look on the hotel’s balcony overlooking the neighboring Christian Science church and plaza. The first look was followed by some more portraits in the plaza with family. After portraits, the couple had a ketubah signing with their families followed by a wedding ceremony with some Jewish elements integrated (such as the chuppah and the breaking of the glass) which was officiated by a close friend. Simone and Shawn wanted to use their wedding photos as a pregnancy announcement, so we incorporated their ultrasound photo into some of their portraits which I thought was beautiful!

After the ceremony, the guests gathered in a small ballroom for a cocktail hour where dancing spontaneously began. Cocktail hour was followed by a dinner enjoyed at one long table with a beautiful toast given by the bride's father.

Congratulations to Simone & Shawn who welcomed their baby boy in October!

 
 
Women watch as a young girl gets her hair styled before a Boston hotel wedding.
A bride is buttoned up by her mom while she gets ready for her wedding at the Four Seasons One Dalton in Boston.
A bride celebrates with her sister before her wedding ceremony during her photo session with a Boston wedding photojournalist
A bride's mother helps put on her veil while getting ready for her wedding.
A bride has a first look with her dad during her Boston intimate wedding photography session.
A couple has their first look during their Boston wedding photography session
A bride wipes her tears during her first look
A couple gazes at each other during their first look on their intimate wedding day.
 
A couple holds each other during their boston wedding photography session
 
A couple walks through Boston together during their intimate wedding.
A couple kisses during their Boston wedding photojournalism session
 
A couple embraces during their intimate wedding photography session in Boston.
 
A couple stands beneath an arch during their boston documentary wedding photography session.
A couple listens as their friend reads their Ketubah before signing it at the Four Seasons One Dalton.
A couple smiles at each other after signing their Ketubah during their intimate jewish wedding.
 
 
A groom walks down the aisle with his parents during his Boston wedding photojournalist session.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Vendors

Venue/Catering/Bar: Four Seasons One Dalton

Photographer: Kayla Rice Photography

Floral: Table & Tulip

Hair & Makeup: Charlotte Phinney

Ceremony/Reception Musician: RD King

 
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Arti & Jay's Hindu Wedding Ceremony at New England Botanic Garden at Tower Hill

Arti & Jay chose an absolutely beautiful venue, New England Botanic Garden at Tower Hill, for their intimate wedding ceremony with their families. The venue is picturesque year round but especially so in the spring with the flowering trees in bloom and fields of tulips filling the gardens with color. The colorful backdrop was a perfect one to compliment the vibrant colors of their Hindu wedding attire.

 
A Hindu couple stand together in a field of tulips at the New England Botanic Garden at tower hill after getting married.
 

Arti & Jay chose an absolutely beautiful venue, New England Botanic Garden at Tower Hill, for their intimate wedding ceremony with their families. The venue is picturesque year round but especially so in the spring with the flowering trees in bloom and fields of tulips filling the gardens with color. The colorful backdrop was a perfect one to compliment the vibrant colors of their Hindu wedding attire.

Arti and Jay’s love story is straight out of a rom-com. The couple met spontaneously at the airport and connected while talking nonstop throughout their flight. When they met they were living in different cities but stayed in touch and ended up re-connecting years later when the stars aligned for them to live near one another.

One of the botanical garden’s greenhouses served as the ceremony space on their wedding day. The lush greens of the space made for a gorgeous backdrop making the colorful reds and golds in their outfits pop.

The couple’s small family-only wedding was a traditional Hindu ceremony and featured some beautiful Hindu traditions such as exchanging garlands (symbolizing the partners welcoming each other into their families), Saptapadi (when the newlyweds have their garments tied together and walk together to signify their friendship), and the Mangal Fera (the bride and groom walk around the fire four times, each time signifies something different; duty, prosperity, love, and spiritual liberation). The family members in attendance were each given parts to play throughout the ceremony. The way Arti & Jay involved each member of their family beautifully showed how much they all meant to them.

Congratulations, Arti & Jay!

 
A groom's father helps him dress before his wedding.
A bride gets dressed before her Hindu wedding ceremony.
A groom holds a bouquet of flowers and a coconut while seeing his bride to be for the first time on their wedding day
 
A couple holds each other in a greenhouse at the New England Botanic Garden at Tower Hill.
 
 
 
A couple walks through a greenhouse at the New England Botanic Garden at Tower Hill before their wedding ceremony.
A couple gets primped before their Hindu wedding ceremony in Massachusetts.
 
 
A couple has their hands bound together during their Hindu wedding photojournalism session in Massachusetts.
Guests toss flower petals during the Saptapadi
 
 
 
 
A couple holds each other in the gardens at the New England Botanic Gardens at Tower Hill after their wedding ceremony.
 
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Ellie & Shane's Cape Cod Wedding

Ellie & Shane made me believe in good karma.

The weather forecast leading up to the couple’s wedding was foreboding to say the least. They had planned their Cape Cod wedding at Red Jacket Beach Resort, right on the water in Yarmouth, MA on September 16, 2023; the day that Hurricane Lee was forecasted to hit the Cape.

 

Ellie & Shane made me believe in good karma.

The weather forecast leading up to the couple’s wedding was foreboding to say the least. They had planned their Cape Cod wedding at Red Jacket Beach Resort, right on the water in Yarmouth, MA on September 16, 2023; the day that Hurricane Lee was forecasted to hit the Cape.

Meteorologists had been instilling fear in the Boston and coastal New England communities throughout the week leading up to the wedding. CBS Boston reported the "greatest impact will be felt on the Lower and Outer Cape and on Nantucket…If you live on the Cape of Massachusetts…keep a close eye on Lee as we head into the weekend…if Lee ends up farther west, we could have stronger winds, heavier rain, larger swells and coastal flooding.”

Ellie & Shane could not have handled the disquieting news better. When I spoke with Ellie in the days leading up to her wedding, she was calm, upbeat, and continued to have a positive outlook about the day despite the growing predictions of high winds and flooding rain. She was just excited to get married to Shane and to be with all of the people they loved the most and didn’t seem to care too much about what that ended up looking like, as long as it could still happen (these are my kind of clients).

As a documentary style wedding photographer, Ellie & Shane hired me to capture authentic photos of their families and friends throughout their wedding day and that remained the most important thing to them.

The day of their wedding began with some rain and wind, but as the day progressed, the skies gradually brightened and the wind calmed to manageable levels. We were able to do Ellie & Shane’s first look and all of our planned portraits outdoors, and the ceremony was held in the yard overlooking the ocean. After the ceremony, guests enjoyed cocktails on the lawn and we were given one of the most beautiful sunsets I’ve ever seen during their cocktail hour. I don’t typically believe in things like karma or fate, but this drastic turn of events really felt like the result of Ellie & Shane’s positivity and the loving energy of their friends and family.

The night ended inside the resort’s ballroom with some beautiful toasts from the couple’s siblings and Ellie’s father, key lime pie for dessert, and a super fun, packed dance floor.

The day turned out to be a beautiful one in every sense of the word and there could not be a more deserving couple than Ellie & Shane.

Here are some of my favorite photos from Ellie & Shane’s Cape Cod wedding. Enjoy!

 
 
Family heirlooms sit on a table before a documentary style wedding photography session.
The bride and her mother talk while getting ready before their Cape Cod Wedding Photography session.
A bride gets her hair done before her Cape Cod Wedding Photography session.
Family photos are displayed while the bride gets ready for her Boston wedding photography session
A bride shows her mom her wedding dress before her Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
A bride has her veil fixed before her Cape Cod Wedding Photography session at the Red Jacket Beach Resort.
A groom gets ready with friends before his Cape Cod Wedding Photography session.
A groom gets ready with friends and family before his Boston Wedding Photography session.
A groom and his friends cheers before his Cape Cod Wedding Photojournalism session.
A bride and groom have their first look on the beach before their Cape Cod Wedding photography session.
A bride and groom have their first look on the beach before their Cape Cod Wedding photography session.
A bride and groom have their first look on the beach before their Cape Cod Wedding photography session.
 
A bride and groom pose together on the beach before their Cape Cod wedding photography session.
 
A bride and groom climb up stairs from the beach during their documentary wedding photography session.
Flower girls wait for their turn for family portraits during a documentary wedding photography session.
A bride and groom walk along the beach during their documentary wedding photography session.
A bride and groom smile at each other during their Cape Cod wedding photography session.
 
A bride and groom hold each other in the dunes during their Cape Cod wedding photography session.
 
A bride and groom hold each other during their Cape Cod wedding photography session.
A bride and groom walk on the beach during their documentary wedding photography session.
Guests gather for a ceremony during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Guests gather for a ceremony during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Guests gather for a ceremony during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Guests gather for a ceremony during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
A flower girl is set up with distractions to get her through a wedding ceremony during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Guests gather for the ceremony during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
The groom walks down the aisle with his mother during his Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Flower girls walk down the aisle during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
The groom watches his bride walk down the aisle during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
A bride walks down the aisle with her parents during her Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
A wedding ceremony is held overlooking the ocean at the Red Jacket Beach Resort during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
A bride and groom gaze into each others eyes during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
A bride and groom listen to their officiant during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
 
The bride's parents get emotional during the Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
 
A bride and groom kiss at the end of their ceremony during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
A bride and groom kiss at the end of their ceremony during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
A bride and groom walk down the aisle together during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
A bride and groom celebrate as they walk down the aisle together during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Parents of the married couple celebrate during the Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Flower girls are served chocolate milk at cocktail hour during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
The bride gets a hug from a guest during cocktail hour during her Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Grandparents are carted to cocktail hour during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
The mother of the groom hugs the bride during her Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
A bride and groom hold each other during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
A bride and groom hold each other during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
A bride and groom dance in the golden hour light during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Wedding guests enjoy a beautiful sunset during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Wedding guests enjoy a beautiful sunset during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
A bride and groom chat with a guest during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Guests take a selfie during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Guests enjoy a post storm sunset during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Guests enjoy a post storm sunset during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Guests find their place cards during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Flower girls dance during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
The bride and groom enter their reception during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
The bride and groom have their first dance during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
The bride and groom have their first dance during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Guests cheer while the bride and groom have their first dance during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
The father of the bride gives a toast during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
The brother of the bride gives a toast during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
The brother of the groom gives a toast during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
The bride and groom laugh during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
The bride and groom play with the flower girls during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
The bride and groom chat with guests during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
The bride and groom eat while flower girls dance during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Guests dance during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Guests dance during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Guests dance during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
The bride dances with her father during her Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
The bride dances with her father during her Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
A groom dances with his mom during his Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
A bride and her father watch while the groom dances with his mom during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
A groom hugs his mom during his Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
The bride and groom dance with their guests during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
Guests dance during a Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.
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The bride and groom dance during their Cape Cod documentary wedding photography session.

Vendors

Venue: Red Jacket Beach Resort

Photographer: Kayla Rice Photography

Officiant: Claire Watts

Floral: Debra Kraft

Hair & Makeup: Salon 700

DJ: Meritage (Nick Anson)

Dessert: Marion’s Pies

 
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Courtland & Matt's Backyard Wedding in Gloucester

When Courtland told me that she and Matt were planning their backyard wedding at Courtland’s parents’ home by the water in Gloucester, Massachusetts, I envisioned a picturesque setting but never imagined it to be quite as beautiful as it turned out to be in real life.

 

When Courtland told me that she and Matt were planning their backyard wedding at Courtland’s parents’ home in Gloucester, Massachusetts, I envisioned a picturesque setting but never imagined it to be quite as beautiful as it turned out to be in real life.

When I arrived, family and friends were helping to set up flowers in pink, orange, yellow, and cream hues around the lush green yard and down by the ceremony space that overlooked the water. Two floral pillars stood on a wooden platform by the docks, framing the spot where the couple would soon be married. The week had been an overcast and rainy one but the rain held off and we even saw some blue sky peeking through throughout Courtland & Matt’s wedding day.

Courtland and her bridesmaids got ready in a small guest house down the driveway. The couple shared a first look in a clearing in the woods overlooking the water away from the hustle and bustle of the wedding preparations closer to the house. We then gathered the wedding party and family members and took a few portraits before the ceremony followed by some portraits incorporating the scenic waterfront views with just Courtland & Matt.

Guests began to arrive, so the couple took a private break and prepared for the ceremony to begin. Friends and family mingled in the yard and then gradually took their seats down by the ceremony space. The processional music began (played by musician Ollella) and the couple and their wedding party processed from the house down through the yard and down the aisle. Courtland’s veil nearly escaped with a gust of wind as she and her parents walked down the aisle, but her mother was able to catch it just in time. As a wedding photojournalist, moments like this are gold to me. I’m always looking to capture the humorous, strange, and unexpected moments that weddings almost always are full of.

Courtland’s uncle (Uncle Pete) officiated the wedding, which added a nice personal touch to the ceremony. He performed a unity ceremony with the couple, told stories of Courtland’s youth, shared some beautiful words, and then handed over the microphone for each of them to share their vows before officially announcing them husband and wife. Guests threw rice in celebration as the couple recessed back down the aisle.

Right after the ceremony, Uncle Pete helped me announce a group photo and we had guests gather in the yard as I ran up to the top floor of the house to take the large group photo. Cocktail hour included an oyster station (served in a boat) hosted by Island Creek Oysters out of Duxbury. The couple mingled with their guests who stretched out over the yard, the deck, and into the tented reception space by the water.

After an hour or so of drinks and delicious food catered by local Gloucester restaurant Passports, the DJ asked guests to gather around the dance floor to welcome the newlyweds to their reception. The couple’s parents and wedding party made their grand entrance followed immediately by Courtland & Matt’s entrance and first dance; a fun and spunky choreographed dance to “Die Young” by Sylvan Esso (a personal favorite of mine). Lovely toasts by the father of the bride and the father of the groom followed shortly after, and a joint Mother/Son and Father/Daughter dance after that.

The sun set leaving a bright blue twilight sky over the reception tent where guests ate dinner and enjoyed each others company. After dinner, guests gathered once again by the dance floor to watch Courtland & Matt cut their wedding cake. It was clear that this day was incredibly special for the couple as they teared up expressing their gratitute for everyone that came to celebrate with them and helped to make their wedding day as beautiful as it was. After their thank yous, the dance floor opened up again for some fun, energetic dancing to end the night.

Here are some of my favorite photos from Courtland and Matt’s backyard Gloucester wedding. Enjoy!

The Annisquam River can be seen through the trees at the Gloucester wedding venue.
 
The bride's family home set up for a wedding.
 
Sunflowers grow in a garden where a wedding will take place during a Gloucester Massachusetts documentary wedding session.
A bride and groom see each other for the first time on their wedding day during their first look.
 
A bride and groom hold each other during their first look by the water in Gloucester, Massachusetts.
 
Groomsmen hang out in the kitchen before the ceremony.
The bride reacts to the beauty of her flowers while preparing for portraits with her bridesmaids.
A bride poses with her bridesmaids during her Massachusetts backyard wedding.
A groom poses with his groomsmen.
A bride does a silly pose with her bridesmaids before her Gloucester backyard wedding.
 
A couple stands on rocks overlooking the water during their Gloucester Massachusetts wedding photojournalism session
 
A couple stands on rocks overlooking the water during their Gloucester Massachusetts documentary wedding session
A couple walks over rocks by the water during their Gloucester Massachusetts documentary wedding session.
Flower pillars decorate the ceremony space near the water at a Gloucester Massachusetts wedding.
A boat house seen from the Massachusetts backyard wedding
Guests mingle before the ceremony during a Massachusetts documentary wedding photography session.
 
Guests mingle before the ceremony during a Massachusetts documentary wedding photography session.
 
Guests greet each other before the ceremony during a Massachusetts documentary wedding photography session.
The groom walks down the aisle with his parents during his Massachusetts documentary wedding photography session.
A bride loses her veil during her Massachusetts wedding photojournalism session.
A bride walks down the aisle with her parents during her Massachusetts backyard wedding
A bride kisses her father at her wedding ceremony during her Massachusetts documentary wedding photography session.
A backyard wedding in Gloucester Massachusetts captured during a Boston Documentary wedding photography session.
Groomsmen smile as they watch the ceremony during a Massachusetts wedding photojournalism session
Bridesmaids stand and listen to the ceremony during a Massachusetts documentary wedding photography session.
A bride and groom participate in a unity ceremony during their Boston documentary wedding photography session.
The bride and groom's parents laugh during the ceremony at their children's backyard wedding in Gloucester, Massachusetts.
A ceremony takes place overlooking the water in Gloucester, Massachusetts.
Guests laugh at the ceremony during a Massachusetts documentary wedding photography session.
A groom shares his vows with his bride during their Massachusetts documentary wedding photography session
A bride shares her vows during her Boston documentary wedding photography session.
 
The groom's parents sit closely while watching their son get married in a Massachusetts backyard wedding ceremony.
 
 
A bride and groom kiss during their Massachusetts wedding photojournalism session in Gloucester.
 
Guests throw rice as a bride and groom walk down the aisle during their Massachusetts Documentary wedding photography session.
A group photo of all the guests at a Massachusetts Documentary Wedding Photography session.
Island Creek Oysters employees shuck oysters for guests during a backyard wedding in Gloucester, Massachusetts.
A bride laughs with guests during her Massachusetts documentary wedding photography session.
The groom hugs a guest during his Boston wedding photojournalism session.
Guests mingle during cocktail hour at a backyard wedding in Gloucester, MA.
Guests hoot and holler as the bride and groom enter during a Boston documentary wedding photography session.
The groom's parents are introduced to the reception during a backyard wedding in Gloucester, Massachusetts.
Groomsmen enter the wedding reception during a backyard wedding in Gloucester, MA.
Guests cheer as the bride and groom enter the reception during their Massachusetts Documentary Wedding Photography session.
A couple performs a choreographed dance routine for their first dance during their Boston Wedding Photojournalism session.
A couple performs a choreographed dance routine for their first dance during their backyard wedding in Gloucester, Massachusetts.
A couple kisses during their first dance at their backyard wedding in Gloucester, Massachusetts.
The father of the bride gives a toast during his daughter's Massachusetts documentary wedding photography session.
The mother of the bride listens to her husband's toast during her daughter's Massachusetts documentary wedding photography session.
The couple listens while the father of the groom gives a toast during his son's Massachusetts documentary wedding photography session.
The father of the groom gives a toast during his son's Massachusetts documentary wedding photography session.
The mother of the groom reacts to her husband's toast during their son's Massachusetts documentary wedding photography session.
The couple listens while the father of the groom gives a toast during their Massachusetts documentary wedding photography session.
The couple dances with their parents during their backyard wedding in Gloucester, MA.
The groom dances with his mother during his Massachusetts wedding photojournalism session.
Guests eat beneath a tent as the sky glows blue during a Massachusetts Documentary wedding photography session.
A bride and groom eat cake during their Massachusetts wedding photojournalism session.

Vendors

Venue: Private Residence

Catering & Bar: Passports Restaurant

Planner: Isabel Pett of Hēdon Event Planning

Photographer: Kayla Rice Photography

Officiant: Uncle Pete

Hair & Makeup: Talia Day

Ceremony Musician: Ellie Barber (Ollella)

DJ & Videography: South Shore Sound & Lighting

Rentals: The Event Company

Cake: Flourish Bake Shoppe

 
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4 Great Reasons to Do a First Look At Your Wedding (And One Great Reason To Skip It)

As a documentary wedding photographer, I am all about the candid, natural, moments. I tend not to vouch for doing many shots that are staged in any way, so it might surprise you to know that I actually recommend doing a first look to almost every couple I work with. There are some really great reasons why you should do a first look and only one really good reason to skip it.

As a documentary wedding photographer, I am all about the candid, natural, moments. I tend not to vouch for doing many shots that are staged in any way, so it might surprise you to know that I actually recommend doing a first look to almost every couple I work with. There are some really great reasons why you should do a first look and only one really good reason to skip it.

Reason #1: Calm Your Nerves. There’s something sort of weird about the tradition of not seeing your husband or wife to-be in the hours before your ceremony. They are your best friend and the person you want to be with for life’s biggest events after all! Having a private moment to see each other just before the ceremony and to take away that nerve-wracking "big reveal” feeling can help make the ceremony a less anxiety-inducing experience. It will put you and your partner in a good space and allow you to take a beat to enjoy your day together before it really begins.

Reason #2: A first look makes for truly beautiful, emotional photos. During your ceremony, you’ll both have all eyes on you and nerves will have kicked in. Sometimes, this will make you clam up and not express your emotions in the same way that you might have in private. With a first look, your photographer can capture a beautiful, authentic, emotional moment between the two of you that may not have happened otherwise. Capturing your emotion as each of you sees each other for the first time on your wedding day can make for some of the most amazing images and portraits of the two of you from the day. It is possible to capture these emotions while one of you is walking down the aisle, but with the distance between you physically and the formality of the moment, it is never quite the same photo-wise.

The bride cries while having a first look at Alyson's Orchard in New Hampshire.

Reason #3: You’ll be looking as perfect and fresh as you will all day (as will your bridal party and family members)! Take advantage of your freshly made-up selves and take your couple portraits, family, and bridal party photos before the ceremony. That way you can all ugly cry during the ceremony and nobody will have to worry about the ramifications of mascara stained cheeks or keeping a makeup artist on site for the extra time for touchups (do make sure to bring some makeup to touch up before the ceremony though, as you’ll likely need it post-first look emotion!).

Andy & Micelys hug during their first look

Reason #4: THIS IS THE BIG ONE. Get your portraits over with before the ceremony so that you, your bridal party and your family can relax and enjoy the party with your guests after the ceremony! You’ve probably spent hours planning (and paying for) delicious food and drinks to serve your guests at your cocktail hour. Don’t miss out on all that deliciousness yourself because you’re off taking photos! Cocktail hour is a perfect time to chat with guests and make some rounds talking to family and friends who have traveled from near and far to celebrate with you. Do a first look so you can thoroughly enjoy that time!

The ONLY reason to skip a first look: You want the first time that you see your partner on your wedding day to be when you are at opposite ends of the aisle. If that tradition is most important to you and overshadows reasons 1-4, by all means, skip the first look! It’s your wedding day and you should stick with what you love. If you’ve always dreamt of your ceremony in this way, then do it! It will be beautiful and your photographer will still capture your “first look” emotions (make sure to hire a second photographer if you care to get both partners’ emotions captured).

Very important advice if you go this route and skip the first look: Make sure to have a friend who isn’t in all of the photos snag you and your partner some cocktail hour food and drinks so you don’t miss out!

groom sees bride for the first time walking down the aisle at their long island wedding
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